June 11, 2020

There’s a nagging cliché about life coming around full circle. But, never does it seem more real than when one of our parents starts to visibly age and requires assistance for otherwise-normal activities. 

Yet, even as our parents start to age, the rigors of a full-time job don’t seem to dissipate. So, what happens when you want to be there for Mom and Dad, but you still need to draw in a paycheck?

Well, this is where a live-in caregiver steps onto the scene. Whether a caregiver comes to tend to your loved one’s daily affairs while you’re at work or moves in on a more permanent basis to oversee things, they offer tremendous reassurance that everything’s going to be alright.  

Below, we’ll break down the details of what, precisely a live-in care provider offers. There are a rainbow of options, depending on your loved one’s needs. And, no matter which direction you take, comfort lies at the core of it all. 

Comfort Giver

The first (and perhaps best) way to describe a live-in care provider is a comfort giver. Their presence offers a certain level of comfort for friends and family members who are concerned about the well-being of an elderly loved one. 

No longer do sons and daughters have to worry that their elderly parents may have slipped or fallen. No longer do they have to send up a flare if a phone call isn’t answered. It’s established that someone’s close at hand and caring for their every need. 

Live-in care providers also provide comfort for someone who’s aging, as well. Consider how we spend our lives curating our home. It’s our safe haven, our safe space.

When the trials of aging start to take their toll, it’s far more reassuring to endure life’s difficulties from the comfort of a living room surrounded by family photos or a bedroom that was painted and decorated by their spouse many moons ago. 

Live-In Caregiver vs. Daytime Caregiving

Of course, many of us would love to welcome our elderly parents back into our homes and care for them the way they cared for us as children. Yet, often, the demands of life require us to maintain a daytime job. When our hands become tied like this, there are a couple of options. 

Live-In Caregiving

Live-in elderly care means your family member will have an in-home caregiver who works four or five days a week, providing ’round the clock care. So, while you’re at work, your loved one will be cared for. Even if you’re working a double shift, there’s no fear; your loved one will be cared for. 

In this situation, the live-in senior caregiver must be provided a bed where they can rest for eight hours a night (with, of course, the stipulation that this sleep may be disrupted by the needs of their client). They’re also given a period of rest during the day where another caregiver can come in or a family member can take over. 

Daytime Caregiving

If you’re able to move an elderly loved one into your home, but can’t be around all day, this may be a lovely option for you. A daytime caregiver will arrive to oversee the health and safety of your loved one while you’re at the office. 

Typically, when you come home, you’re “on duty” to care for your loved one. But, what’s nice is that the same daytime caregiver can sometimes step in to help with the occasional evening affair. And, of course, if you work an evening shift, then you will be able to find someone who’s available for overnight caregiving until you come home again in the morning.

24-Hour Caregiving

Twenty-four-hour caregiving may sound a bit like live-in elder care. But, it’s actually more intensive. This is for someone who can’t be left unsupervised (i.e., during an eight hour period of rest). Perhaps they’re prone to falls or need constant medical attention. 

In which case, 24-hour caregiving is provided by two or three caregivers who work in shifts. There won’t be an eight-hour sleep break or a daytime break. Rather, someone would be “on guard” at all times, providing the utmost care for your aging family member. 

Types of Care Providers

Aside from live-in vs. daytime (or nighttime) providers, there are also varying levels of training that you can consider when looking for the perfect match. Here’s a breakdown of some of your best options:

Licensed Practical Nurses & Registered Nurses

A licensed nurse can provide skilled care for a number of situations. They may come in hourly shifts, or more frequently, to administer medication, provide post-surgery care, tend to wounds, provide ventilation care, or monitor vitals. 

This is, of course, for someone who needs diligent medical attention or someone who may be recovering from a difficult surgery. Having a registered nurse enter a home is a wonderful way to know your loved one is being cared for by a trusted member of the medical community. 

Certified Nursing Assistant

Of course, another member of the medical community that’s not to be overlooked is a nursing assistant or home health aide. These are friendly folks who can assist with everyday activities like bathing, dressing, oral hygiene, shaving, skin care, ambulating/transfer, transport/escort, toileting, supervision, reminder medication, prepare meals/feeding, laundry/change linens and light housekeeping. 

A home health aide may fall nicely into the category of daytime care listed above. This is someone who can oversee your loved one’s daily routine, from breakfast to afternoon bridge with their friends, to an early supper before a member of the family arrives home for the evening. 

Companion

Another alternative is a companion. This is for someone who’s just looking for a bit of companionship rather than “hands-on care.” Perhaps a companion will drive Mom or Dad to the local movie theatre to catch the latest Tom Cruise film.

Or, maybe they’ll stay at home and enjoy a couple episodes of Grey’s Anatomy while playing a robust game of gin rummy. This is someone who’s going to keep your loved one’s mental health in tip-top shape and also help ward off any feelings of cabin fever. 

Does Insurance Cover a Caregiver?

Thankfully, most long-term care insurance will cover the services provided by a registered caregiver. Of course, that’s not to say that what’s covered doesn’t vary from policy to policy. 

If you work with the right referral agency, they can not only pair you with the perfect caregiver out there, but they can also help you master the game of ping pong that comes with a phone call to the insurance company.

For example, the team here at Just Like Family loves to assist our clients as they navigate the nitty-gritty of an insurance policy. We also provide the documentation necessary to start your policy benefits and keep them going. 

Start the Process for a Live-In Caregiver Today

Do you feel the weight lifting off your shoulders as you consider the multi-faceted nature of a live-in caregiver? Whether it’s preparing tea, doling out medication, or helping a loved one move around safely, there’s a lot to be gained by entrusting the supervision of a loved one to a caregiver. 

Here at Just Life Family Home Care, we offer the support your loved ones need by referring qualified home health care caregivers to come to their home and live the most independent life possible. Our mission is to provide tailor-made solutions to each family’s needs. Whether you’re looking for a Registered Nurse or a Home Health Aide, we can connect you with someone truly special. 

Give us a call today to schedule a free consultation with a representative. Together, we’ll shape out a plan of action that will ensure the health, safety, and comfort of your loved one. Wouldn’t it be nice if we all slept in peace again, starting tonight?

April 12, 2019

Imagine a close relative going through knee surgery. By all accounts, the surgery is to be simple and the patient should be able to be home that day and even walk up the stairs. Unfortunately, that wasn’t the outcome. The patient was hospitalized overnight and was incapacitated for days. While rare to have complications, many experts recommend thinking ahead about the care needed after surgery or hospitalization and for unexpected outcomes. Different types of surgery require different plans.  So, the relative’s knee surgery did result in problems climbing stairs, and a patient’s shoulder surgery can restrict the use of the arm completely.  If the surgery or procedure is planned, patients are encouraged to discuss the recovery with the doctor or medical provider and identify what can be planned for.

Things to Consider

A recent WebMD posting suggests the following examples of issues to think about, that may sound obvious, but can help patients understand the types of plans needed:

• Consider the location of the bedroom. If upstairs, consider sleeping downstairs during recovery.  Bring any bedding downstairs before the surgery, along with personal hygiene items and medications.
• Stock the pantry before the procedure, especially if there are special food recommendations from the doctor.
• Identify and obtain any equipment that is recommended, and ask the insurance company if that is a covered expense. New York Times reporter, Lesley Alderman, wrote about home recovery and pointed out that the patient may need special equipment, such as ‘a walker, a bath seat, or a commode’ to help ensure the patients do not injure themselves during recovery.  Consider if the patient could need any outside help using that equipment.
• In addition to addressing post-procedure planning, the National Institute of Health (NIH) publication regarding “Taking Care of Yourself After Surgery” provides suggestions for post-op care that is more medically specific. Let’s look at some of those issues, and how outside assistance may be helpful.
• Managing Pain: NIH recommends clear communication with the doctor regarding how to manage any surgical pain.  In most cases, the patient can handle this. However, if the pain medicine, or other ordered medications, need to be provided via shot or intravenously, family members will likely need outside assistance.
• Surgical Site and Incision Care: NIH recommends following the doctor’s orders, but also keeping an eye out for separation, bleeding or signs of infection. Despite the perception that wound care is “simple,” there are exceptions, such as a surgical site that isn’t accessible to the patient, or a family member/friend is just not comfortable dealing with wounds, or the patient is not comfortable with non-trained family/friends playing this role. Outside assistance can come in for a short period and perform this service.
• Activity: NIH encourages patients to “get up and be active as soon as possible” which encourages faster recovery. NIH also reminds us that the doctor will likely give “specific activity instructions” which should be followed, and which will likely limit the lifting of objects heavier objects. Often, we find that those who have had surgery, however, need assistance in fulfilling this recommendation. As an example, those with knee surgery, like our example above, may need help walking just a few steps, or walking with crutches. Or, someone who has shoulder surgery may need help bathing and dressing. Health care staff can be of great assistance, in a professional and supportive way.
• Consider in-home care if family members aren’t available regularly. Just Like Family Home Care has nurses available to provide superior care in-home or temporary accommodation setting. They can provide daily drop-in care, day or night care, extended hourly and after hours house calls. We offer our clients flexible hours because we understand that it may be difficult to gauge how much care they will need following surgery. Some clients may require more hours and some may need fewer than anticipated. Your nurses work with your surgical team to customize a plan of care that fits your needs. There are no contracts and no minimum hours required: our clients control the schedule.

The above, and our own experience results in a recommendation that planning, when possible, help make recovery from surgery or other hospital stays, much easier. Good communication with the medical staff, learning what to expect upon release and for the few weeks after the event, is critical. Planning ahead for higher level skilled care, such as nursing, and more generic care, such as a home health aide, can make the process much easier. But, even if not planned, patients and family/friends should be comfortable asking for outside help. Those who work in this field love to help and can make recovery a much less frightening experience.

Recovering from Home

One final point, research from the American Academy of Orthopedic Surgeons indicates that recovery from home, is equally positive for those who live alone and those who live with others. The Rothman Institute in Pennsylvania conducted a study that showed that with the “emotional benefit for patients recovering in familiar surroundings, and the lack of difference in pain or complications, discharge home is appropriate for the clear majority of patients.” While the study targeted those having joint surgery, other studies show the same. Obtaining outside assistance, such as health care and nursing staff, at home, was encouraged.

As professionals in the field of health care, and in overall home health care support, we do encourage patients and families/supporters to consider recovery from home and do encourage pre-planning when possible.

Disclaimer: The blog entry above has been created utilizing different online sources. The blog entry has not been verified by a doctor. Please note that conducting the above-mentioned activities is at the individual’s own risk and responsibility. Please always consult a doctor before exercising or doing any physical activity, especially to avoid injuries or harm due to unknown preconditions. Just Like Family is not responsible for any injuries while conducting the above activities.

 

 

January 31, 2019

As family members, and as friends, many of us are called upon at some time to consider assisting those close to us in connection with an illness/surgery or aging. As we take on those roles, we often feel guilty if we become overwhelmed. According to experts in these fields, it is important to consider the family/friend caregiver’s own needs as well as those who are being helped. Common caregiver issues include:

• Feeling overwhelmed and trapped, by the situation and/or the time involved,
• Feeling like other family members are being abandoned,
• Feeling afraid of dealing with medical issues,
• Feeling as if self-care and other personal issues are suffering, and
• Feeling guilty for feeling any or all of the above!
  

A recent web posting from AARP (American Association of Retired People) pointed out that family/friend caregivers “have a lot of reasons for not arranging respite for themselves. Among them: guilt, money, being too busy in the present to plan for the near future and reluctance to change their loved one’s routine.” The site goes on to say, “every caregiver needs a caregiver — someone who will care for your loved one for a few hours, days or weeks, so you can take care of yourself.”

Many articles discussing home health care and ‘aging at home’ discuss the need for a plan for the caregiving situation, which addresses these issues. The National Institute on Aging, at this site, https://www.nia.nih.gov/health/caregiving, provides several discussions regarding planning for the caregiving situation, as well as finding help when overwhelmed. Another page on the NIA site provides more tips for caregivers needing help taking care of themselves, https://www.nia.nih.gov/health/taking-care-yourself-tips-caregivers.

One other site, dailycaring.com, has many resources for the caregiver who is feeling overwhelmed. This link, https://dailycaring.com/how-to-be-ok-with-getting-caregiving-help/ provides specific guidance on encouraging caregivers of older adults to seek help. They conclude with:

“Did you know that getting help will actually make you a better caregiver? That might sound crazy, but it’s true.

If you get help, you’ll reduce stress, cut down your to-do list, and be able to regularly take time for yourself. This is guaranteed to improve your health and mood. When you’re feeling better, you’ll be more patient and caring with your older adult.”

While much of the information here, and online, deal with caregivers for older people, much of the information equally applies to those providing caregiving after injury or surgery.  For those caregivers, there are usually specific concerns about dealing with medical issues.  While the need for a plan still applies, the caregiver needs to be up-front about their ability and/or willingness to handle issues from bathing to wound care. Professional assistance is available and can be provided for short periods of time. 

Just Like Family Home Care is proud to serve the community by providing short and long term assistance, including providing respite care to help the caregivers.  As family/friend caregivers need assistance, we stand ready to be part of their team and plan.  Most importantly, Just Like Family encourages family/friend caregivers to remember to take care of themselves.